Date: 5/18/2017, Categories: BDSM, Gay, Trans, Author: klammer, Source: xHamster
At what age it can be definitely classed as that, is for lawmakers and judges to decide. UK law is clear but not always a realistic guide. For reasons of shame or guilt many gay or trans youngsters have found that casual sex with much older adults was the only discreet way of exploring their own sexuality, before they felt ready to step into the more familiar minefield of emotional relationships with people nearer their own age. An age-limit there must undoubtedly be, and obviously for the protection of vulnerable young teenagers it has to be rather a blunt tool. But many adults (and not all of them 'retro-fantasisers'!) have told me they were co-erced by no-one at 13 and 14, 11 in the case of one friend, into acts which the adults with them could clearly have been arrested for on grounds of 'paedophilia'. But the men themselves, at least in the stories recounted to me, were certainly guilty of little more than a helping hand or providing a rudimentary sexual 'road-map', not the more universally despised 'predatory paedophilia' the tabloids - so gleefully! - miss no opportunity to describe... My justifications for those parts of the novel where real paedophile urges - of an absolutely unacceptable kind in any context other than fiction - are 'voiced' are A) that I know them to be far more common as fantasies than seems to be recognised officially, from first-hand experience of the men I have served over the years. B) From the age of 12 onwards, as my transvestism took full ...